farangs rights here

this post i will need help with.but heres what i think to start with.here in kumphawapi we are shown much respect and are very wecome.but in a conflict with a thai we almost have no rights.if you cause a thai to lose face you are in the firing line.thai people will say little but they will wait then avenge the wrong doing.there is a thai law that states that if you say a thai person has done wrong they can go to police and the farang must prove what he has said.is this right ?a thai womans farang husband was told by another farang that he had heard from 3 sources that his wife was involved in selling her body and selling others as well.to a farang he is guilty of shit stiring and a big mouth not more.but with a thai woman she has had a massve loss of face .this farang she now reguards as someone who has tried to break up her marriage hence taking away her sole means of support.this would cause her children not to be able to go to school etc etc he has made an enermy for life.she will tell all her friends and family [as thais do] why any one would tell someone that about his wife be it true or false beats me .so watch out for this trap guys a few beers a big mouth and who know what can happen

The gossip bit goes both ways, and after being here for several years now, it seems many farangs are the biggest gossipers, stirring the pot, and throwing folks under the bus.

dont put all your eggs in the one basket.if you break up with your thai lady who is or has acted as your wife she can get all the assets like house, car ,household etc.there are countless thousands of happy married farang here who have found real love but for those who have invested all then found that life here dosnt work for them can be a nightmare.if you make a thai woman unhappy she can show you the door with only your suitcase in hand.self inflicted death rate of farang here is high.what can go wrong.num 1 you are marrying a woman who has to find a husband for money reasons and for some a farang is a farang or the 1st one that wants her.you must spend time with your lady of choise and be sure you can be happy togeather.enjoy each others company.meet each others needs and expectations[great sex is not anough]seeing the pic of a beautiful young thai lady that you would love to bang then quickly setting up house with her is gambling big time.thai women are naturly very loving and loyal put the effort in and you will find lasting real love. thai women can not handle bad tempered guys who explode everytime something goes wrong [they suffer great lose of face], she will plot your exit.